i find it interesting that thoes who dont support hbcu's are always the first to say what they should or should not do.
Hampton U has come under fire from their stance on the business studnets "hair" code with no locs or cornrows. Many who did not attend black schools feel that they should support studnets who sport natrual hair. I guess since i have no issue with the rule, and having attended and taught at a black school i am not suprised.
Being natrual is a trendy, for some it might be a life style but i think a lot of folks its the latest trend and theya re following it. Now most schools are run by older black folks... older folks are not always the quickest to change... so it is not suprising that they have this code.
Many places in corporate america are still very consertive and some of these trendy hair styles are not accepted. That is not to say that they are right about it.. that is to say that they need to play the game to get what they want.
HBCU's are in the business of turning childern in to adults who can get a job once they graduate. I am sure HU is doing what they think is in the students best intrest to help them obtain gainful employment in the work place... Now the students do have options, they can transfer, wear a wig, change majors, or conform to what the university says.
it is not the earth shattering, life ending thing that some hair nazi make it out to be. But i guess since my hair wont ever be nappy, i just dont get it... which is fine...that makes life interesting....
HBUC'S are a great and wonderful thing.. and until you attend one you have no idea what it is like.
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Life with Hank
For the past year my father has been mad at me for something crazy, well at least i think it is crazy.
Any way he finally let me out of the dog house. I forgot how much fun it was to spend with him. My parents are divorced and life since they seperated has been much better, most of the time. my parents dont really care for each other, which is cool because they live about 800 miles apart. While i love my mother dearly and would do any thing for her, there is nothing like a woman's relationship with her father. I was Daddy's lil girl up until i was 18... which was all gravey but something happend when i hit 18 and our relationship has been rocky ever since.
maybe its because we are too much alike, we at times will go years with out speaking, which at the time was fine with me.
But this last time really chapped my butt. It was something that i got blamed for because i am the eldest and currently make the most money. I guess because my brother has my nephew he was off the hook. But he made it seem like we went out of our way to hurt him. Which was not the case...
But i have made it out of the dog house, and life with Hank is all gravy again.
For the past year my father has been mad at me for something crazy, well at least i think it is crazy.
Any way he finally let me out of the dog house. I forgot how much fun it was to spend with him. My parents are divorced and life since they seperated has been much better, most of the time. my parents dont really care for each other, which is cool because they live about 800 miles apart. While i love my mother dearly and would do any thing for her, there is nothing like a woman's relationship with her father. I was Daddy's lil girl up until i was 18... which was all gravey but something happend when i hit 18 and our relationship has been rocky ever since.
maybe its because we are too much alike, we at times will go years with out speaking, which at the time was fine with me.
But this last time really chapped my butt. It was something that i got blamed for because i am the eldest and currently make the most money. I guess because my brother has my nephew he was off the hook. But he made it seem like we went out of our way to hurt him. Which was not the case...
But i have made it out of the dog house, and life with Hank is all gravy again.
Thursday, December 15, 2005
My Obversations in the District
Why do people wear white tights with black shoes..
in whos mind does that shit match?
why do people crowd around the metro doors and wont let you get off, and get mad when you knock them down?
Why do black women wear white hose?!
Why must we jump and scream at the seeing eye dog who is stilling there calmly?
Why do people wear white tights with black shoes..
in whos mind does that shit match?
why do people crowd around the metro doors and wont let you get off, and get mad when you knock them down?
Why do black women wear white hose?!
Why must we jump and scream at the seeing eye dog who is stilling there calmly?
Monday, December 12, 2005
This has been a great year of loss in the black community.
From Luther, to John H. Johnson, to Rosa Parks and the latest Richard Pryor.
No words can discribe the emptiness i feel. Although i didnt know Richard personally, i am a lover of comdey *i wish i was funny like that* Richard told it like it was and didnt bite his tougne.
He was really the first, if it had not been for richard we would not have many of the comics we have today black or white.
Richard i know will be missed by his family but even more he will be greatly missed by his millions of fans.
The world is a lil less funny now.... and there is no comedy in that.
*cries*
Rest in Peace Richard Rest in Peace
From Luther, to John H. Johnson, to Rosa Parks and the latest Richard Pryor.
No words can discribe the emptiness i feel. Although i didnt know Richard personally, i am a lover of comdey *i wish i was funny like that* Richard told it like it was and didnt bite his tougne.
He was really the first, if it had not been for richard we would not have many of the comics we have today black or white.
Richard i know will be missed by his family but even more he will be greatly missed by his millions of fans.
The world is a lil less funny now.... and there is no comedy in that.
*cries*
Rest in Peace Richard Rest in Peace
Tuesday, November 15, 2005
WHY YOU GOTTA LOVE BLACK PLANET LOL
Hey...How are you doing....I'm loving that smile of yours...I can see that personality shinning through...and I also see that you have a beautiful face.....but hey..I'm not even going to rap you up with the compliments..I'm pretty sure you are over whelmed by too many......I was hitting you up basically because I see that you live in the area and I have something that my interest you....I've basically been selling DVDs recently and no it's not the bootleg type...I have a friend that programmed a software for the blocks that are on the original DVDs and I burn the movies from Blockbuster and Net Flix so you know they come out just as clear as the original....They aren't the movies that's just been released in the theatre..They are movies that's been released on DVD already....Anything Blockbuster gets....I tell you what..Since you don't know the quality I'll just charge you $5ea for your first list....and hey...You are welcome to look at them before you buy them..I do have a DVD player in my truck and if the quality isn't want you want then I'll give you $5..LOL....I can email you a list and if you are interested you can just send me a list of what you want and we'll just find a meeting spot to hook up so you can get them...Oh and I also have adult movies as well...(smiling)...So what's a email address I can send you a list if you are interested.....Oh and once you get the list your are welcome to forward it on to your friends and family if you'd like....but they would have to go through you to get them for $5ea
Hey...How are you doing....I'm loving that smile of yours...I can see that personality shinning through...and I also see that you have a beautiful face.....but hey..I'm not even going to rap you up with the compliments..I'm pretty sure you are over whelmed by too many......I was hitting you up basically because I see that you live in the area and I have something that my interest you....I've basically been selling DVDs recently and no it's not the bootleg type...I have a friend that programmed a software for the blocks that are on the original DVDs and I burn the movies from Blockbuster and Net Flix so you know they come out just as clear as the original....They aren't the movies that's just been released in the theatre..They are movies that's been released on DVD already....Anything Blockbuster gets....I tell you what..Since you don't know the quality I'll just charge you $5ea for your first list....and hey...You are welcome to look at them before you buy them..I do have a DVD player in my truck and if the quality isn't want you want then I'll give you $5..LOL....I can email you a list and if you are interested you can just send me a list of what you want and we'll just find a meeting spot to hook up so you can get them...Oh and I also have adult movies as well...(smiling)...So what's a email address I can send you a list if you are interested.....Oh and once you get the list your are welcome to forward it on to your friends and family if you'd like....but they would have to go through you to get them for $5ea
Friday, November 11, 2005
That New Car Smell
Well as most of my friends know and my coworkers i have been shopping for a car. It has not been easy because of things i brought on my self. But any way i got a new car. I didnt want to buy one because i didnt want a car note i was enjoying living carnote free... but oh well... I have a white '05 Malibu v6... that puppy got some pick up lol.
I think i am really going to enjoy my car.... I can say this... car buying is no fun at all... i need to rent me some one to go with me next time i buy a car lol.
Yall wanna help me with the note lol...
Well as most of my friends know and my coworkers i have been shopping for a car. It has not been easy because of things i brought on my self. But any way i got a new car. I didnt want to buy one because i didnt want a car note i was enjoying living carnote free... but oh well... I have a white '05 Malibu v6... that puppy got some pick up lol.
I think i am really going to enjoy my car.... I can say this... car buying is no fun at all... i need to rent me some one to go with me next time i buy a car lol.
Yall wanna help me with the note lol...
The Year of the EX @ Homecoming
this homecoming was the year of the ex... i saw all of them but one...
it was funny to me... the one that is from the islands still makes me weak in the knees with is accent but thats about it.... it was good to see him and know he is doing well back at home with his own biz..
The next one is the one i dated after graduation... nice buy but dating me and every one else... i liked him but i was not trying to share at all... he kept asking why i stopped calling.. i am suprised he missed me calling cause he had a tour of bootay to deal with lol... he is doing well for himself and i am happy to hear that.. he was still trying to holla... sorry you had you chance...
and to the grand daddy of them all my first bf, the one who dumped me cause i was fat *i was fat when he started dating me* i saw him and felt nothing.. great feeling... have not felt any thing for him in years, not even anger, i heard he got married... i was happy for him... he got a lil chunky too... that is just too ironic for me .... i wish i could have met his wife.. but oh well.. and funny thing is he asked about the one from the island *we all had class together he didnt know i was with the one from the island* that added to the amusement of the weekend....
All and All i had a gret time at homecoming as i usually do... i have matrued and it shows... i am not sure if like it though.. but i guess at 32 i need to act like the adult i want my family to treat me as lol
I love tuskegee and miss it dearly, it was some of the best years of my life, some of the hardest also. Tuskegee made into a woman, it taught me so much, much more than just the book knowledge that i gained. I know i can make it any where in the world having gone to tuskegee.
Homecoming is just an a reinforcement of that every year.
this homecoming was the year of the ex... i saw all of them but one...
it was funny to me... the one that is from the islands still makes me weak in the knees with is accent but thats about it.... it was good to see him and know he is doing well back at home with his own biz..
The next one is the one i dated after graduation... nice buy but dating me and every one else... i liked him but i was not trying to share at all... he kept asking why i stopped calling.. i am suprised he missed me calling cause he had a tour of bootay to deal with lol... he is doing well for himself and i am happy to hear that.. he was still trying to holla... sorry you had you chance...
and to the grand daddy of them all my first bf, the one who dumped me cause i was fat *i was fat when he started dating me* i saw him and felt nothing.. great feeling... have not felt any thing for him in years, not even anger, i heard he got married... i was happy for him... he got a lil chunky too... that is just too ironic for me .... i wish i could have met his wife.. but oh well.. and funny thing is he asked about the one from the island *we all had class together he didnt know i was with the one from the island* that added to the amusement of the weekend....
All and All i had a gret time at homecoming as i usually do... i have matrued and it shows... i am not sure if like it though.. but i guess at 32 i need to act like the adult i want my family to treat me as lol
I love tuskegee and miss it dearly, it was some of the best years of my life, some of the hardest also. Tuskegee made into a woman, it taught me so much, much more than just the book knowledge that i gained. I know i can make it any where in the world having gone to tuskegee.
Homecoming is just an a reinforcement of that every year.
Friday, October 28, 2005
Halloween and Uber Holy Folks
Now i find it interesting that the ultra relgious black folks are so down for not celebrating halloween, which is the eve of all saints day, and it is touted at the "Devil's Holiday". But they will celebrate the hell of of Christmas, which is laden with pagen symbols.
Halloween is a fun time for fat kids like me... i loved free candy. I had fun dressing up, i was not worshiping any devil in doing so... My Pastor at home used to talk about how black folks get bent out of shape over this holiday. Its not the devils holiday or a pegan holiday. Infact the high holy day for pegans is Dec. 22nd the night of the winter soclists, and pegans are not devil worshipers either... but i digress....
What frosts my cookies is how people do not read for themselves about these holiday and just start spouting off bs.....
*walking off to get me some free candy*
Now i find it interesting that the ultra relgious black folks are so down for not celebrating halloween, which is the eve of all saints day, and it is touted at the "Devil's Holiday". But they will celebrate the hell of of Christmas, which is laden with pagen symbols.
Halloween is a fun time for fat kids like me... i loved free candy. I had fun dressing up, i was not worshiping any devil in doing so... My Pastor at home used to talk about how black folks get bent out of shape over this holiday. Its not the devils holiday or a pegan holiday. Infact the high holy day for pegans is Dec. 22nd the night of the winter soclists, and pegans are not devil worshipers either... but i digress....
What frosts my cookies is how people do not read for themselves about these holiday and just start spouting off bs.....
*walking off to get me some free candy*
Tuesday, October 25, 2005
Wednesday, October 12, 2005
ok something else that frosts my cookies....
I am from chicago
born and raised
18 years str8 then college in alabama and 4 more years of chicago
i now live in Baltimore, MD, work in Washington, DC
I love the Bears, hate Greenbay
I love the White Sox, dont really care for the Cubs... *i am a southsider*
I LOVE MARSHELL FIELDS
ok i hear some ugly rumore that Macy's is going to change the name of Marshell Fields to
*hack* Macy's
WTF? Marshell Fields is not only a great store but is a historic landmark
Marshell Feilds was one of the first department stores, and one of the pioners of customer returns.
Along with that the State Street Store *a must visit for any tourist to Chicago* is a Historic Landmark *as is the Carson's Store 2 blocks down on State Street*
Now its bad enough the Fields family sold MF to Dayton Hudson which then became the Target Corp. and they turned around and sold all the department stores *all dayton hudsons became MF* to the May company who owns Lord and Taylor *another store i love but MF is my favorite*
And Federated which owns Macy's bought May. Ok if your still with me check this out.
MF is a midwest store like Hechts is the DC/MD/VA store and Dillards is in the south.
But L&T is every where as is Bloomies. In Chicago a few of our malls have MF, L&T and Bloomies
so are they going to close 2 of the anchor stores because they are all named Macy's now?
or will you have 3 very large Macy's stores.
Will they contiue to make frang mints *a must eat from MF*?
Will they be sold in all Macy's stores?
I am just sick about this name change. Macy's is doing a great disservice to MF, L&T, Bloomies, Hectch, the list goes on and on.
Soon Macy's will be the only store.. and their clothes suck the big one.
Maybe if i was a thin woman i would not care but Macy's line for the "Fluffy Diva" leaves a lot to be desired.
I am beyond pissed at this point... MF is an institution, leave it the hell alone *pouts*
I am from chicago
born and raised
18 years str8 then college in alabama and 4 more years of chicago
i now live in Baltimore, MD, work in Washington, DC
I love the Bears, hate Greenbay
I love the White Sox, dont really care for the Cubs... *i am a southsider*
I LOVE MARSHELL FIELDS
ok i hear some ugly rumore that Macy's is going to change the name of Marshell Fields to
*hack* Macy's
WTF? Marshell Fields is not only a great store but is a historic landmark
Marshell Feilds was one of the first department stores, and one of the pioners of customer returns.
Along with that the State Street Store *a must visit for any tourist to Chicago* is a Historic Landmark *as is the Carson's Store 2 blocks down on State Street*
Now its bad enough the Fields family sold MF to Dayton Hudson which then became the Target Corp. and they turned around and sold all the department stores *all dayton hudsons became MF* to the May company who owns Lord and Taylor *another store i love but MF is my favorite*
And Federated which owns Macy's bought May. Ok if your still with me check this out.
MF is a midwest store like Hechts is the DC/MD/VA store and Dillards is in the south.
But L&T is every where as is Bloomies. In Chicago a few of our malls have MF, L&T and Bloomies
so are they going to close 2 of the anchor stores because they are all named Macy's now?
or will you have 3 very large Macy's stores.
Will they contiue to make frang mints *a must eat from MF*?
Will they be sold in all Macy's stores?
I am just sick about this name change. Macy's is doing a great disservice to MF, L&T, Bloomies, Hectch, the list goes on and on.
Soon Macy's will be the only store.. and their clothes suck the big one.
Maybe if i was a thin woman i would not care but Macy's line for the "Fluffy Diva" leaves a lot to be desired.
I am beyond pissed at this point... MF is an institution, leave it the hell alone *pouts*
Ok as most of you all know i am a gemini, and by nature i love to talk. I have a passion for the gift of gab.
Well i love the internet and chatting with people. And i love to chat with folks from all over the world. At least i did until it seems like every single male in africa wants to marry me.
Now i know i am not ugly but i am not Halle foine either...
It is not flattering nor is it wanted attention from these men. And its not just from one country in africa its seems to come from several from northern Africa to the south.
It is beyond irritating when they think that they got something black men in the USA dont have. WTF ever.... i dont want a long distance relationship let alone with some one half across the freaking world....
Good lawd what do you think i am going to help you get your green card? Uh in the words of Whitney HELL TO THE NAW you are not using me to get to the USA.
Besides i am dating some one, which does not seem to satifsy them. They try to tell me how they are better than my sweetie. Well thats when they go on Igg.... but my ignore list is getting full *laffs*.
I just had to vent and tell some body lol
Well i love the internet and chatting with people. And i love to chat with folks from all over the world. At least i did until it seems like every single male in africa wants to marry me.
Now i know i am not ugly but i am not Halle foine either...
It is not flattering nor is it wanted attention from these men. And its not just from one country in africa its seems to come from several from northern Africa to the south.
It is beyond irritating when they think that they got something black men in the USA dont have. WTF ever.... i dont want a long distance relationship let alone with some one half across the freaking world....
Good lawd what do you think i am going to help you get your green card? Uh in the words of Whitney HELL TO THE NAW you are not using me to get to the USA.
Besides i am dating some one, which does not seem to satifsy them. They try to tell me how they are better than my sweetie. Well thats when they go on Igg.... but my ignore list is getting full *laffs*.
I just had to vent and tell some body lol
Monday, September 19, 2005
I have had issues with my hair for many years. Because of my mixed bloodline my hair is different than that of most black folks. My hair is soft, thin and naturally curly/wavy. I love alot of natrual hair do's but with the lack of thickness to my hair i cant wear them.
I used to relax my hair but my hair could not take the color and the relaxer... so color won out.
I have started a hair journal to try to love my hair again... lol we shall see if it works.....
just added some new pics to my hair journal...
http://public.fotki.com/asweetie06/
I used to relax my hair but my hair could not take the color and the relaxer... so color won out.
I have started a hair journal to try to love my hair again... lol we shall see if it works.....
just added some new pics to my hair journal...
http://public.fotki.com/asweetie06/
Tuesday, September 06, 2005
ok why did i get another one of these freaking notes on bp
Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "Ebony349", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud349 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo
and why did some 18 year old baby try to holla at me?
boy aint nothing and i mean nothing you can do for me
lol
Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "Ebony349", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud349 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo
and why did some 18 year old baby try to holla at me?
boy aint nothing and i mean nothing you can do for me
lol
Monday, September 05, 2005
This is Why BP is the 12th Ring of Hell
ok i was on BP looking for one of my former students who is from N.O. to see if he is ok... i get a note while one there
wanna read it? here it go:
Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "EbonyStudy348", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud348 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo
now i am like wtf? where do they get this mess from... any whoo BP is a waste of cyber space...
ok i was on BP looking for one of my former students who is from N.O. to see if he is ok... i get a note while one there
wanna read it? here it go:
Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "EbonyStudy348", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud348 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo
now i am like wtf? where do they get this mess from... any whoo BP is a waste of cyber space...
Saturday, August 27, 2005
I am a displaced Chicagoan
I live in Baltimore and I work in DC
now i must admit that i thought Bmore aka charm city aka harm city was a burb of DC aka Chocolate City
i have found that its not... the two cities are very similar and they HATE each other... which i dont understand
its worse than the southside vs westside in Chicago
And what is worse is the folks from PG County right outside of DC that want to dog out Bmore
but they live in the 12th Ring of Hell.....
I find my self defending Bmore... a city i dont really care for but its ok to live here for now...
Both places are GHETTO as hell and are very much the same, ok dc has a better public transit system than bmore but other than that and the higer than hell cost of living in dc
they are THE FUCKING SAME
i really need DC and PG folks to get off their high horse and put the crack pipe down and realize they are not better than Bmore
I need Bmore folks to put the pipe down and learn how to fucking read... but thats another rant...
I live in Baltimore and I work in DC
now i must admit that i thought Bmore aka charm city aka harm city was a burb of DC aka Chocolate City
i have found that its not... the two cities are very similar and they HATE each other... which i dont understand
its worse than the southside vs westside in Chicago
And what is worse is the folks from PG County right outside of DC that want to dog out Bmore
but they live in the 12th Ring of Hell.....
I find my self defending Bmore... a city i dont really care for but its ok to live here for now...
Both places are GHETTO as hell and are very much the same, ok dc has a better public transit system than bmore but other than that and the higer than hell cost of living in dc
they are THE FUCKING SAME
i really need DC and PG folks to get off their high horse and put the crack pipe down and realize they are not better than Bmore
I need Bmore folks to put the pipe down and learn how to fucking read... but thats another rant...
Saturday, August 20, 2005
last month was an interesting month.
Sorority Convention did not go as i planned
Was out of town too much, so now i am tired as hell
Went to atl and found out a soroirty sister of mine i trusted lied and stole money
from folks including me
its rough when you trust folks and they shit on you like that
so i wrote a poem about it wanna hear? Ok maybe not lol
Sorority Convention did not go as i planned
Was out of town too much, so now i am tired as hell
Went to atl and found out a soroirty sister of mine i trusted lied and stole money
from folks including me
its rough when you trust folks and they shit on you like that
so i wrote a poem about it wanna hear? Ok maybe not lol
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
i am off to sorority convention today.
it will be a bitter sweet reunion with my sorority sisters, because one of the ones i loved so much is not longer her.
I will miss her dearly but life must go on...
So i am off today to ohio *wonder what there is to do in ohio*
and i hope to have a grand time will the crazy lady's who i call my sisters... they are a diverse group of women that all share a common thread SERVICE.
We all love to do service, if we didnt we would not be in Gamma Sig.
I am also running for national office, i do hope i win because i have some ideas to help the sorority out.
well i am just bored at work until i get to leave in a lil bit to start my vacation
WOOHOO
i need a vacation.. i wish my sweetie was coming with me... but oh well maybe next time....
it will be a bitter sweet reunion with my sorority sisters, because one of the ones i loved so much is not longer her.
I will miss her dearly but life must go on...
So i am off today to ohio *wonder what there is to do in ohio*
and i hope to have a grand time will the crazy lady's who i call my sisters... they are a diverse group of women that all share a common thread SERVICE.
We all love to do service, if we didnt we would not be in Gamma Sig.
I am also running for national office, i do hope i win because i have some ideas to help the sorority out.
well i am just bored at work until i get to leave in a lil bit to start my vacation
WOOHOO
i need a vacation.. i wish my sweetie was coming with me... but oh well maybe next time....
Wednesday, June 15, 2005
This is for Char Scott an amazing woman who left this earth too soon. Char was one of my sorority sisters, she was the admin for our sorority, but she was so much more than that. She was the sweetest, nicest person i even knew in Gamma Sig. She is the reason i am still active. She will be dearly missed by her family, by our sorority and by me.
Rest in Peace Char
Rest in Peace
Rest in Peace Char
Rest in Peace
Friday, June 03, 2005
weight... it has always been a touchy subject....
i know i dont write too much in my blog about my thoughts on stuff but today i was moved to
its not easy being a fat person in the USA.... espcially a fat woman...
i know thin women have their issues... but i dont think they can fully understand the pain, and tormenet most fat kids went through. And that pain runs deep.... some of us over come it
some of us don't... and while folks think its funny and cute to laugh, poke fun, and dog out fat people... let me tell you that shit aint funny...
just because a person is larger than normal does not mean we dont have feelings.... so you can keep your lil snide ass comments to your self...
I personall have over come the "ugly" self image that was imprinted on my brain as a child because i was a fat kid... i did not start fat... i was thin once.. i think it was a wends. in 1980 lol
but i have spent most of my life fat... and until i was about 25 i was ashamed and felt like i owed the world an apology for it... i could have easily killed my self and been much happier
but that was not the answer to my problems.... I had to learn to accept me for me.... the Fluffy Diva i am *my brother calls me that lol *
So in a world who is dying to be thin.... we all need to take a step back and relaize its not that deep and to be comfy with the skin we are in... because big, small and all that is inbetween we all need to love who we are....
sorry for rambling on and on lol
i know i dont write too much in my blog about my thoughts on stuff but today i was moved to
its not easy being a fat person in the USA.... espcially a fat woman...
i know thin women have their issues... but i dont think they can fully understand the pain, and tormenet most fat kids went through. And that pain runs deep.... some of us over come it
some of us don't... and while folks think its funny and cute to laugh, poke fun, and dog out fat people... let me tell you that shit aint funny...
just because a person is larger than normal does not mean we dont have feelings.... so you can keep your lil snide ass comments to your self...
I personall have over come the "ugly" self image that was imprinted on my brain as a child because i was a fat kid... i did not start fat... i was thin once.. i think it was a wends. in 1980 lol
but i have spent most of my life fat... and until i was about 25 i was ashamed and felt like i owed the world an apology for it... i could have easily killed my self and been much happier
but that was not the answer to my problems.... I had to learn to accept me for me.... the Fluffy Diva i am *my brother calls me that lol *
So in a world who is dying to be thin.... we all need to take a step back and relaize its not that deep and to be comfy with the skin we are in... because big, small and all that is inbetween we all need to love who we are....
sorry for rambling on and on lol
Monday, May 30, 2005
555: hello
06: hello
555: mmm, u are so sexy
06: thanks
555: may I ask a question?
06: sure
555: do u do escort services?
06: no
555: iam sorry to bother u
555: but iam intrested to have an escort
555: bye
06: oh lawd
555: are u living in the nearby?
06: no i live in baltimore
555: oh i see
555: but realy iam very intrested with u
555: u are very sexy
555: if u dont mind i may come to u in baltimore
06: sorry i dont know you like that
555: actually i am a businessman from Kuwait
555: and i look to have good time
06: check the yellow pages for an escort
555: iam sorry again
555: bye
wtf? trolling for a good time on the net... you are barking up the wrong tree....
push on playa push on
06: hello
555: mmm, u are so sexy
06: thanks
555: may I ask a question?
06: sure
555: do u do escort services?
06: no
555: iam sorry to bother u
555: but iam intrested to have an escort
555: bye
06: oh lawd
555: are u living in the nearby?
06: no i live in baltimore
555: oh i see
555: but realy iam very intrested with u
555: u are very sexy
555: if u dont mind i may come to u in baltimore
06: sorry i dont know you like that
555: actually i am a businessman from Kuwait
555: and i look to have good time
06: check the yellow pages for an escort
555: iam sorry again
555: bye
wtf? trolling for a good time on the net... you are barking up the wrong tree....
push on playa push on
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