Halloween and Uber Holy Folks

Now i find it interesting that the ultra relgious black folks are so down for not celebrating halloween, which is the eve of all saints day, and it is touted at the "Devil's Holiday". But they will celebrate the hell of of Christmas, which is laden with pagen symbols.

Halloween is a fun time for fat kids like me... i loved free candy. I had fun dressing up, i was not worshiping any devil in doing so... My Pastor at home used to talk about how black folks get bent out of shape over this holiday. Its not the devils holiday or a pegan holiday. Infact the high holy day for pegans is Dec. 22nd the night of the winter soclists, and pegans are not devil worshipers either... but i digress....

What frosts my cookies is how people do not read for themselves about these holiday and just start spouting off bs.....

*walking off to get me some free candy*

My sistas
My sistas

WHY ARE WE WEARING WHITE TIGHTS WITH BLACK SHOES
why are we wearing white tights period?

Who the hell told yall that was cute and it matched?
Black women say NO to white hose unless your a nurse... and most of them wear pants now any way....

JUST SAY HELL NO TO WHITE HOSE......

ok something else that frosts my cookies....
I am from chicago
born and raised
18 years str8 then college in alabama and 4 more years of chicago
i now live in Baltimore, MD, work in Washington, DC

I love the Bears, hate Greenbay
I love the White Sox, dont really care for the Cubs... *i am a southsider*

I LOVE MARSHELL FIELDS
ok i hear some ugly rumore that Macy's is going to change the name of Marshell Fields to
*hack* Macy's

WTF? Marshell Fields is not only a great store but is a historic landmark
Marshell Feilds was one of the first department stores, and one of the pioners of customer returns.
Along with that the State Street Store *a must visit for any tourist to Chicago* is a Historic Landmark *as is the Carson's Store 2 blocks down on State Street*

Now its bad enough the Fields family sold MF to Dayton Hudson which then became the Target Corp. and they turned around and sold all the department stores *all dayton hudsons became MF* to the May company who owns Lord and Taylor *another store i love but MF is my favorite*
And Federated which owns Macy's bought May. Ok if your still with me check this out.
MF is a midwest store like Hechts is the DC/MD/VA store and Dillards is in the south.
But L&T is every where as is Bloomies. In Chicago a few of our malls have MF, L&T and Bloomies
so are they going to close 2 of the anchor stores because they are all named Macy's now?
or will you have 3 very large Macy's stores.
Will they contiue to make frang mints *a must eat from MF*?
Will they be sold in all Macy's stores?

I am just sick about this name change. Macy's is doing a great disservice to MF, L&T, Bloomies, Hectch, the list goes on and on.
Soon Macy's will be the only store.. and their clothes suck the big one.

Maybe if i was a thin woman i would not care but Macy's line for the "Fluffy Diva" leaves a lot to be desired.
I am beyond pissed at this point... MF is an institution, leave it the hell alone *pouts*

Ok as most of you all know i am a gemini, and by nature i love to talk. I have a passion for the gift of gab.
Well i love the internet and chatting with people. And i love to chat with folks from all over the world. At least i did until it seems like every single male in africa wants to marry me.
Now i know i am not ugly but i am not Halle foine either...
It is not flattering nor is it wanted attention from these men. And its not just from one country in africa its seems to come from several from northern Africa to the south.
It is beyond irritating when they think that they got something black men in the USA dont have. WTF ever.... i dont want a long distance relationship let alone with some one half across the freaking world....
Good lawd what do you think i am going to help you get your green card? Uh in the words of Whitney HELL TO THE NAW you are not using me to get to the USA.

Besides i am dating some one, which does not seem to satifsy them. They try to tell me how they are better than my sweetie. Well thats when they go on Igg.... but my ignore list is getting full *laffs*.

I just had to vent and tell some body lol

I have had issues with my hair for many years. Because of my mixed bloodline my hair is different than that of most black folks. My hair is soft, thin and naturally curly/wavy. I love alot of natrual hair do's but with the lack of thickness to my hair i cant wear them.
I used to relax my hair but my hair could not take the color and the relaxer... so color won out.

I have started a hair journal to try to love my hair again... lol we shall see if it works.....

just added some new pics to my hair journal...
http://public.fotki.com/asweetie06/

ok why did i get another one of these freaking notes on bp

Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "Ebony349", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud349 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo

and why did some 18 year old baby try to holla at me?
boy aint nothing and i mean nothing you can do for me
lol

This is Why BP is the 12th Ring of Hell
ok i was on BP looking for one of my former students who is from N.O. to see if he is ok... i get a note while one there
wanna read it? here it go:
Hey Girl, I was looking through your profile and I wanted to say HOT DAMN! You are so Fine! We need more women like you at: http://profiles.v3.be I've never seen a girl like you, so fill out a profile cause I dont use BlackPlanet No more, I'm under "EbonyStudy348", again, make a profile at:http://profiles.v3.be type it in your Internet Explorer or Copy and Paste it, I promise you will meet so many more people at http://profiles.v3.be that are down to go out and meet you! Hope to see you soon, Hit me Up Ebonystud348 at http://profiles.v3.be later boo

now i am like wtf? where do they get this mess from... any whoo BP is a waste of cyber space...

I am a displaced Chicagoan
I live in Baltimore and I work in DC
now i must admit that i thought Bmore aka charm city aka harm city was a burb of DC aka Chocolate City

i have found that its not... the two cities are very similar and they HATE each other... which i dont understand
its worse than the southside vs westside in Chicago

And what is worse is the folks from PG County right outside of DC that want to dog out Bmore
but they live in the 12th Ring of Hell.....

I find my self defending Bmore... a city i dont really care for but its ok to live here for now...

Both places are GHETTO as hell and are very much the same, ok dc has a better public transit system than bmore but other than that and the higer than hell cost of living in dc
they are THE FUCKING SAME
i really need DC and PG folks to get off their high horse and put the crack pipe down and realize they are not better than Bmore

I need Bmore folks to put the pipe down and learn how to fucking read... but thats another rant...

last month was an interesting month.

Sorority Convention did not go as i planned

Was out of town too much, so now i am tired as hell

Went to atl and found out a soroirty sister of mine i trusted lied and stole money
from folks including me

its rough when you trust folks and they shit on you like that
so i wrote a poem about it wanna hear? Ok maybe not lol

i am off to sorority convention today.
it will be a bitter sweet reunion with my sorority sisters, because one of the ones i loved so much is not longer her.
I will miss her dearly but life must go on...

So i am off today to ohio *wonder what there is to do in ohio*
and i hope to have a grand time will the crazy lady's who i call my sisters... they are a diverse group of women that all share a common thread SERVICE.
We all love to do service, if we didnt we would not be in Gamma Sig.
I am also running for national office, i do hope i win because i have some ideas to help the sorority out.

well i am just bored at work until i get to leave in a lil bit to start my vacation
WOOHOO
i need a vacation.. i wish my sweetie was coming with me... but oh well maybe next time....

This is for Char Scott an amazing woman who left this earth too soon. Char was one of my sorority sisters, she was the admin for our sorority, but she was so much more than that. She was the sweetest, nicest person i even knew in Gamma Sig. She is the reason i am still active. She will be dearly missed by her family, by our sorority and by me.

Rest in Peace Char
Rest in Peace

weight... it has always been a touchy subject....
i know i dont write too much in my blog about my thoughts on stuff but today i was moved to

its not easy being a fat person in the USA.... espcially a fat woman...
i know thin women have their issues... but i dont think they can fully understand the pain, and tormenet most fat kids went through. And that pain runs deep.... some of us over come it
some of us don't... and while folks think its funny and cute to laugh, poke fun, and dog out fat people... let me tell you that shit aint funny...
just because a person is larger than normal does not mean we dont have feelings.... so you can keep your lil snide ass comments to your self...
I personall have over come the "ugly" self image that was imprinted on my brain as a child because i was a fat kid... i did not start fat... i was thin once.. i think it was a wends. in 1980 lol
but i have spent most of my life fat... and until i was about 25 i was ashamed and felt like i owed the world an apology for it... i could have easily killed my self and been much happier
but that was not the answer to my problems.... I had to learn to accept me for me.... the Fluffy Diva i am *my brother calls me that lol *

So in a world who is dying to be thin.... we all need to take a step back and relaize its not that deep and to be comfy with the skin we are in... because big, small and all that is inbetween we all need to love who we are....

sorry for rambling on and on lol

555: hello
06: hello
555: mmm, u are so sexy
06: thanks
555: may I ask a question?
06: sure
555: do u do escort services?
06: no
555: iam sorry to bother u
555: but iam intrested to have an escort
555: bye
06: oh lawd
555: are u living in the nearby?
06: no i live in baltimore
555: oh i see
555: but realy iam very intrested with u
555: u are very sexy
555: if u dont mind i may come to u in baltimore
06: sorry i dont know you like that
555: actually i am a businessman from Kuwait
555: and i look to have good time
06: check the yellow pages for an escort
555: iam sorry again
555: bye


wtf? trolling for a good time on the net... you are barking up the wrong tree....
push on playa push on

Gay folks took over??? Dave Chappell is a nut lol

Listen to this too funny

what the hell...
do you just randomly im people with this message?

LOOSER: Hello.. I am a male 43, engineer. 5' 6", live and work in md/dc area. I have a 2 masters deggree. I am originally from India but have lived here all my life. I make over 110,000 per year but still down to earth, tursthworthy, frank, to the point, yet romantic. I believe in giving and taking respect.Looking for a down to earth yet open minded friend. If you would like, you can contact me at Looser@yahoo.com

is that amount suposed to impress me that he makes 110,000 per year lol

this is just sad just sad lol
beyond sad lol


BUZZ!!!
me: yes
lonlyness4u: darling can i hold u once plzz
lonlyness4u: lonlyness4u: plzz tel me
me: no
lonlyness4u: why..? plzz give me permissiom plz
me: lol
me: no
lonlyness4u: plzz
lonlyness4u: i like ur breasts so i want u once hold tightly plzz BUZZ!!!

http://sigep.utm.edu/scrapbook/albums/2005/steppin2005.wmv

wow

*sigh* can you tell i dont have enough to do some days
here we go again

rich_long14: hey there
6: hello
rich_long14: How u doing??
6: i am fine how are you
rich_long14: Good thanks...So whats up with u today??
6: work lol
6: what about you
rich_long14: The same...trying to take it easy though
6: lol i wish lol


rich_long14: Do u like white men??
6: lol
6: never dated one before
6: i would have to meet one i clicked with
rich_long14: ic....So u think u could handle a white man though??...lol
6: lol
6: handle a white man uh i guess
rich_long14: lol....Just checking....
rich_long14: Cause u know .....we work it..
6: naw i didnt know that
rich_long14: Now u know Boo
6: uh i guess
6: the proof is in the pudding so to speak
6: and being with me is more than just sex
rich_long14: There is more to everyone than just sex Boo...I am not all about sex...I am just very sexual I guess u could say
6: humm ok
rich_long14: Are u not a sexual person??
6: yes i am but i dont talk about sex that easy
rich_long14: I can respect that....I am just an open person
6: ok thats fine
rich_long14: Must have been awhile since u got some...lol
6: nope
6: dont assume
rich_long14: lol....Ok
6: i dont talk about sex with people i dont know
rich_long14: No white meat though.......lol
6: uh no i only date black men currently
rich_long14: Then u are missing out Boo
6: humm if you say so
6: and what makes yall so different?
rich_long14: How we take pride in pleasing our woman..it isn't all about us
6: and black men dont do that
rich_long14: Most don't
rich_long14: especially in bed from what I am told
6: humm i will be sure to pass that on to my two brothers
rich_long14: lol...U do that
6: well i am going to go before i cuss you out bye

ok i dont know what the hell some of these men think they have in their pants that is so special that they can make some stupid ass assumptions but damn stop asking me if i am in to white men
sheesh.....
i am going to start getting mean and nasty when that question is posed next time

see this is what i can not take is sick men who pray on childern

onlee_4_uuu: howz ya doin
06: i am find how are you
onlee_4_uuu: i m doin good... thanx
onlee_4_uuu: may i know ur asl?
06: its in my profile
06: but i am 31 female and baltimore
onlee_4_uuu: dear i m in office.. & ur profile says Adults conent
06: there is nothing wrong with my profile
onlee_4_uuu: yeah i know
06: i put in adult content to keep most kids away
onlee_4_uuu: but i cant open it as ADULT is blocked
onlee_4_uuu: lol
onlee_4_uuu: y..sometimes kids r pleasurable too
06: yuck
06: i dont date childern
06: that is just nasty
onlee_4_uuu: heheh
onlee_4_uuu: but i luv gals from age 15 -45
onlee_4_uuu:
06: any thing underage is illegal
onlee_4_uuu: recently i dated a filipino gal age 16
onlee_4_uuu: yeah i know
onlee_4_uuu: but everythign happens with consent
onlee_4_uuu: so wot u work as?
06: that is just sick
06: bye
onlee_4_uuu: cmon
onlee_4_uuu: does that mean that i cant go to a bar
onlee_4_uuu: when a gal of 16 is a waitress
onlee_4_uuu: did i say i had intercourse with her?????????
onlee_4_uuu: byeeeee if u dont wana talk
06: hell naw i dont want to talk to your sick ass
06: that is a child
06: you sick bastard
onlee_4_uuu: dear
onlee_4_uuu: we dated
onlee_4_uuu: we dated means we had dinner together.. we kissed & dats it
onlee_4_uuu: y u gals always thing dat everythign ends up with SEXXXXXXXX
onlee_4_uuu: BTW .. i dont like to have sex with skinny gal
onlee_4_uuu: i luv voluptous womens
onlee_4_uuu: neway i'll leave thinkin that u too might be skinny
onlee_4_uuu: bye